About Greta
Romaine
Greta
Romaine, (or Greta Clark as she then
was) was evacuated from Sidcup in Kent to Natland during the war.
She
stayed with her Uncle and Aunt, Hubert & Olive Williams,
in Natland Mill Beck Lane.
At the time, Hubert
was head gardener for Colonel Crewdson
at Helme Lodge.
Greta
Romaine
Greta told her tale as part
of the WRVS
Heritage Plus
project, becoming involved with Life
In Our Times, a collection of reminiscences produced by a group who
met regularly at the Hastings WRVS Centre from June
to August 2007.
In
contrast to George Wenman's unhappy wartime experience
in Natland (see George's
Story),
Greta's evacuation was a happy one.
This is Greta's
tale.
The
church to which Greta refers is St Mark's
in Natland.
She
remembers the boys from St Mark's Home coming
into the church in their choristers' gowns.
She
went to school in Kendal, first to the Kirkland School
and later to the Senior Girls School up House of Correction
Hill (Windermere Road).
Her
cousin, June Martin, with whom she was evacuated,
returned to Sidcup and sadly died at the age
of 42.
Greta
now lives at St Leonards on Sea, near
Hastings.
She
speaks fondly of her time in Natland, more of which
can be read at The
Happy Evacuee
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Greta's
Tale
Evacuated
To Stay With A Lovely Aunt
In
the wartime I have my happiest memories. Fortunately,
I was evacuated to stay with a lovely aunt who was active,
rode a bike and made wonderful apple and gooseberry
pasties.
My
great companion of this era was my cousin, June, who
was two years older and came to the same auntie; we
became like sisters and were never lonely.
The
lane became a great feature of our lives because it
ran straight past the doorstep of our pretty cottage,
called Farm Cottage.
Every
morning we waited to see if the postman would call in
his red van, or whether he would speed by - then we
would have to wait another day to hear from home and
maybe be sent a bar of chocolate or a little book to
read.
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Farm
Cottage and Chapman's Farm
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The
lane became significant at night time when we had to
get up and take a torch to our makeshift toilet behind
the grey door several yards away from the cottage. It
was conveniently placed at the farm entrance next to
the "midden". This was the name given
to the pile of cows' and animal waste. I just
hope that the squares of newspaper we had to use disintegrated
too.
One
of the pleasures of this lane was the gurgling stream
running beside it, the whole length until it went down
a bank into the big wheel of the wood mill below.
No
doubt the words "mill" and "beck"
came from these two features, plus the name Natland
referring to the area next to Kendal.
As
children we naturally loved playing in the "beck".
The local farmers were friends to us and never
minded us damming up the stream and floating sticks
down so that we could run beside them.
As
it was a clear stream with a stony bottom we were able
to study the wildlife closely. Stick-like creatures,
which we were told were caddis fly larvae, were fascinating
and hard to find as they were clad with pieces of gravel
about an inch long.
Something
we caught in those days (which do not seem to be in
streams nowadays) were crayfish. What fun to find
them with their massive claws - I didn't seem to have
any fear in those days.
Looking
over the gate into the lane were two carthorses, Prince
and Charlie, who would like to see us when they were
not working, pulling the hay carts.
Greta
on Horseback
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At
haymaking times we were allowed to join the flat, bumpy
carts (with solid wheels) and go up the lane and into
the fields to play in the hay. Unfortunately I
got hay fever even at an early age, but it was such
good fun and I suspect the farmer thought we were helping
by turning the hay to dry.
Sometimes
the farmer would let us sit on the back of Prince or
Charlie for a short ride or a photo shoot with the Brownie
camera. Charlie, the grey dappled horse, was our
favourite. We felt miniscule on his high broad
back!
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We
were literally very close to nature and could touch
the cows as they came past our doorstep to go to the
farm for milking. Occasionally my aunt would throw
out a red rug onto the doorstep and if the cows came
along they would look suspiciously and shy away. We
worried that they might lurch backwards and fall into
the beck.
At
the end of the lane were the pig sties and we loved
to see the amiable creatures who always looked as though
they were smiling. We would stroke them and sometimes
go into the sty with them and give them a nice apple.
I can hear the lovely crunching sound to this
day.
The
lane actually gave us all the recreation we needed out
of school hours. There was hopscotch, whips and
tops, skipping, marbles, ball games, bows and arrows
and what excitement when the snow arrived.
But
that's another story!
Early
Working Days
Greta's
stay in Natland influenced her future career. In
a separate tale she relates:
Due
to the fact that I loved gardening when I was young,
all I wanted to do when I left school was to go into
some sort of related occupation where I could be outdoors
all day.
I
had plenty of energy and didn't mind getting my hands
dirty so I persuaded my parents to let me take a job
vacancy in a local nursery garden. This was against
my parents' better judgement as girls were expected
to have a ladylike occupation in a cosy office with
every comfort.
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Greta taking a rest
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My
old uncle was a gardener to a big mansion in Kendal
in the Lake District where I was evacuated during the
war so he influenced me a great deal because I used
to spend time with him in the garden of the big house,
watching him taking cuttings and helping him pick the
fruit in season.
I
found that my gardening job stood me in good stead,
keeping me extremely fit and healthy giving me a wonderful
knowledge of plants and trees.
Wartime Mum
Greta's
aunt, Olive Williams, died in 1993.
Greta
penned this poen in rembrance of her "Wartime
Mum".
It
was published at the time in St Mark's News.
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Greta
Romaine
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Wartime
Mum by Greta
Romaine
A cousin and I aged seven and eight Had our lives
changed by the hand of fate, The War began, we said goodbye - To Mum's Mum
and Dad's, and had a cry, Then off we went to a brand new life - Leaving
behind the bombs and strife. An Auntie welcomed us with open arms, And
after that we had no qualms. We sat down to a lovely spread, Then off
upstairs to a cozy bed.
Life in the country was so much fun, Our memories are of endless
sun. We rode our bikes and climbed the trees And knocked down apples where
nobody sees. We dammed the streams and caught crayfish And made mud pies
in the little dish. We had a sledge and loved the snow, Were sorry when
it had to go. We picked the bluebells in the spring, The nettles gave us
many a sting.
We went to church along the lane and when We walked back home
again, For wild flowers we would always look, And press them in our prayer
book. Our Auntie gave us lovely food, Her apple pasties especially
good! And every week we wrote back home To say we're fine and never a
moan. Then came the day we'd waited for - Our Uncle came home from the
War. He carried back a big carved chest With souvenirs that he liked
best. For quite some time we all had fun, But the end - we knew, would
have to come.
At last the five year War was won, And back to our Mums we had to
come. We had to rush to catch the train - To take us all back home
again. With lots of tears and quick goodbyes, Sadness reflected in our
eyes. Bewilderment showed on all our faces, As we struggled along with
heavy cases.
The years went by, they had a son, For all our holidays would come. We
all went back, year after year, To all the folk that we held
dear. Retirement came, they settled down, They reaped in life what they
had sown. There was happiness and peace in life, So many years as man and
wife.
Then one day in the early spring, Her family came and flowers did
bring. She went to the garden before their tea, To see what greenery she
could see. She rested on her garden seat, And waited for her Lord to
meet.
She left us for another land, Her bunch of leaves still in her
hand. Those left behind can only sigh, There was no time to say
goodbye. We'll miss her in the years to come She was my friend, And
Wartime Mum.
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About Greta
Romaine
Greta
Romaine
In
Greta's
Tale, Greta
Romaine (formerly Clark) told of being
Evacuated
To Stay With A Lovely Aunt in
Natland.
Early
Working Days tells
of how that experience influenced her future
career.
There
was also a poem dedicated to her Wartime Mum.
As
she promised, Greta has now written more about her
time in Natland.
In The Happy Evacuee she
looks back at Natland, Natland Mill Beck and surrounding area in wartime.
Helm
Lodge and the Crewdsons Round
the Farms
Natland
Mill Beck
Canal
and River
Going
to Church
The
Lodge
Up
Helm
Steam
Outings
Outdoor
Activities
Greta
now lives at St Leonards on Sea, near
Hastings, but often thinks of her happy times in Natland.
Greta
adds that "I do a cheap B&B as I have a
self-contained big loft conversion in a nice
area. If any residents of Natland would
like a southern break, they are weclome!"
You
can contact Greta via
Wartime
Mum by Greta
Romaine
A cousin and I aged seven and eight Had our lives
changed by the hand of fate, The War began, we said goodbye- To Mum's Mum
and Dad's, and had a cry, Then off we went to a brand new life - Leaving
behind the bombs and strife. An Auntie welcomed us with open arms, And
after that we had no qualms. We sat down to a lovely spread, Then off
upstairs to a cozy bed.
Life in the country was so much fun, Our memories are of endless
sun. We rode our bikes and climbed the trees And knocked down apples where
nobody sees. We dammed the streams and caught crayfish And made mud pies
in the little dish. We had a sledge and loved the snow, Were sorry when
it had to go. We picked the bluebells in the spring, The nettles gave us
many a sting.
We went to church along the lane and when We walked back home
again, For wild flowers we would always look, And press them in our prayer
book. Our Auntie gave us lovely food, Her apple pasties especially
good! And every week we wrote back home To say we're fine and never a
moan. Then came the day we'd waited for - Our Uncle came home from the
War. He carried back a big carved chest With souvenirs that he liked
best. For quite some time we all had fun, But the end - we knew, would
have to come.
At last the five year War was won, And back to our Mums we had to
come. We had to rush to catch the train - To take us all back home
again. With lots of tears and quick goodbyes, Sadness reflected in our
eyes. Bewilderment showed on all our faces, As we struggled along with
heavy cases.
The years went by, they had a son, For all our holidays would come. We
all went back, year after year, To all the folk that we held
dear. Retirement came, they settled down, They reaped in life what they
had sown. There was happiness and peace in life, So many years as man and
wife.
Then one day in the early spring, Her family came and flowers did
bring. She went to the garden before their tea, To see what greenery she
could see. She rested on her garden seat, And waited for her Lord to
meet.
She left us for another land, Her bunch of leaves still in her
hand. Those left behind can only sigh, There was no time to say
goodbye. We'll miss her in the years to come She was my friend, And
Wartime Mum.
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The
Happy Evacuee
I
was eight when evacuated but have vivid memories. My
cousin, June Martin, two years older, came with me and
we made our home for five years at Farm Cottage, Natland
Mill Beck Lane with Auntie Olive (Williams). Her
husband, Hubert, was out in Aden in the Air Force on
the medical side so we didn't know him for years.
Helme
Lodge and the Crewdsons
Uncle
had been the gardener at Helme Lodge till the war began
and he was naturally called up.
Colonel
Crewdson and his wife must have missed him a great deal
as Uncle was like a trusted friend as much as a gardener
to them.
I
remember one of their daughters whose name was
Nancy. We always addressed her as Miss Nancy.
She always seemed dressed for land work in jodpher
type trousers and green jumper and would drive, too.
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Helme
Lodge
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Mrs
Crewdson was active and could always be found pottering
in their garden and was especially proud of her rockery
with plants from many lands.
Round
the Farms
Crewdson's
farm was down the bottom of our lane and as children
we were always welcome to wander about, watch milking
by hand and play in the pig styes.
Auntie
had a piece of ground just off the farm to use as a
vegetable plot and we must have eaten an enormous amound
of food from it. It had a stone wall all round
it and a wicker gate.
We
were actually much nearer to Chapman's Farm in the lane
as Farm Cottage was built into it. We used to
walk round into the yard daily with our china milk jugs
and wait for the milk to run through the cooler, fresh
and creamy.
John
Chapman was old Mrs Chapman's son and he worked hard,
there was also son Edwin but he was married and lived
a bike ride away, I think in the Helmside area.
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Farm
Cottage and Chapman's Farm
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The
daughter, Elsie, was charming but we only ever saw her
in an armchair as her legs were in irons. We occasionally
walked into their living room when there was no one
to get our milk in the dairy adjoining.
Mrs
Chapman usually had a batch of loaves rising and "proving"
in the hearth, later baked in the black range oven.
An oil lamp was their lighting on a massive wooden
table and the fire was usually roaring.
Greta
on Horseback
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We
took all the nitty-gritty of farm life in our stride-
the mess, the smells, the clanking of milking buckets
and seeing the pigs slaughtered in the farmyard, too.
Cows
would be walked down the lane from the fields partly
giving birth, to be put in a barn to finish off producing
their calves.
Prince
and Charlie were the two massive horses used for ploughing
and carting hay and crops.
We
loved them both and I'm sure they loved us too.
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Cows
coming past Farm Cottage to be milked was a daily occurrence.
Natland
Mill Beck
The
beck flowed down to the mill, it gurgled over the stony
bottom. The massive stones mext to it up the lane,
we were told, were at some time to hold railway lines,
there were two bolt holes in each.
We
rarely went up the lane without jumping up to the first
stones, then hopping over each one towards the Lodge
unless unruly elderberry shoots had grown and barred
our way.
It
could be said that elderberry canes were important to
us children as they made fantastic springy bows for
our bows and arrows games in the field over the wall
opposite Farm Cottage. We loved a massive oak
tree in that field, overhanging the stream below Mr
Hillbeck's garden and pigeon sheds. We sat up
this tree for many hours, even read books up there.
Alas, it is no more.
Canal
and River
In
winter, the canal froze over so we would go to slide
on the ice for many an hour.
In
summer we would watch the barges sailing along the canal,
pulled by big horses and ropes. They were just
visible from Farm Cottage.
We
often went adventuring along the River Kent, starting
from near Mrs Hutchinson's bungalow at the junction
of Natland Road and the slope to the canal bridge. Over
that wall, there was a derelict spot we knew as a tip.
I
remember it specially as being curious one snowy day,
I looked over the top with my hands in my pockets and
slipped, banging my face on the wall and knocked my
front tooth out!
We
took a path to Watercrook farm and played along the
river banks. We paddled sometimes but were a bit
cautious of leeches on the stony bottom. They
were brown on top and light coloured underneath.
They
were perfectly camouflaged, even in the clear water.
People frightened us saying once they stuck to
you they would never let go! However, we didn't
worry for long and made our way along to Hawes Bridge.
Autie often came as she loved a walk.
Going
to Church
Sundays
was the usual walk to church, mornings in winter and
evening service in summer.
It
was a quiet walk, not much traffic and we picked wild
flowers in the high banks. These were lovingly
pressed and put into our own prayer books. I still
have mine but the flowers have lost colour over seventy
years!
From
Farm Cottage we went across what we called the park
as it had big trees, then we would come out at Helme
Lodge entrance by the canal bridge.
The
big beeches alongside the canal were huge, turned beautiful
colours and always whispered in the breeze.
We
usually got to a certain place in Natland Road when
the church bells began to chime. This told us
to get a move on and be in our pew in time.
Canon
Miller was in the vestry while Mr Earnshaw played the
organ. The music was beautiful as only an organ
can sound and this was almost my favourite part of the
service. I felt very touched by the atmosphere
and the music seemed to almost transport me to the clouds.
Outside
the evening sun in summer would shine in the side church
windows and make patterns on the floor.
The
sparrow chirped noisily in the ivy round the windows
and you could hear the drone of tractors cutting hay
or bringing in the corn in the fields, no rest for the
farmers in case the weather changed before all was harvested.
It
was lovely to listen to these sounds while our minds
wandered during Canon Miller's sermons. As long
as we kept quiet, Auntie didn't mind.
I
did rather like seeing a lovely little choirboy who
was dark and handsome I thought, at the tender age of
ten. He was from the nearby boys home.
The
Lodge
Sometimes
we would sit in the old yew tree whose branches overhung
the wall of The Lodge. Old Mr Fox lived there
who was very old and quiet and used to be the gardener
for Helme Lodge before Uncle.
This
stone lodge was really for the current gardener to live
in but as Mr Fox had lived there a long time Uncle had
Farm Cottage and then when old Mr Fox eventually died,
Uncle and Auntie moved into their rightful home, together
with son David, born after the war, and had many happy
years.
Up
Helm
On
some of our outings during the war, it was tradition
to take any visitors we had on a walk or climb up Helm.
It didn't look high but we were puffing by the
top.
At
the bottom there used to be a damp patch just near the
big metal gate and cotton grass grew there, looking
quite pretty bobbing in the wind. Along the top
and at the back we looked for sundew plants. Our
school gave us a list each week of plants to fid and
this was one of them. A wonderful way to learn
the names of wild flowers.
If
we had time, we would walk along the top of Helm to
the wishing tree, find our stone to put in the wall
and make a wish. I wonder what all my wishes were
at this time and did any come true?!
I
remember the shoe menders called Langhorne's near Helmside.
The old fashioned cobbler had a small hut
and it was situated next to the bridge on the far side.
He was an important man as shoes wore out so quickly.
Steam
Outings
We
had a few outings on the steam trains with Auntie so
we excitedly walked up to Oxenholme station, which smelt
of steam and smoke in the subway. We liked to
go to Morecambe and sometimes Windermere but it wasn't
that often.
I
can remember a lovely family sometimes on the platform,
the downline, were there ten children? I never
knew who they were but they were beautifully dressed
and mannered.
If
we ever had visitors come to stay we would go up to
Oxenholme to meet them then walk their luggage back
on an old pram we had for that purpose.
Of
course, we did have trips back to London wartime but
that was a very big event and not often.
Outdoor
Activities
Auntie
had a favourite walk to Paddy Lane, great views, lovely
walk and we picked bluebells but I don't remember where
we picked the lane up. I feel it was near Oxenholme.
We
rode bikes a lot but it was usually up Burton Road towards
Endmoor and sometimes to Sandside or Ulpha.
We
had an aunt and cousin came up to Kirkby Lonsdale wartime,
she looked after Mr Easterby at the bank. When
we visited her, we caught a bus from the Murley Moss
bus stop where we sat on the stone wall. We
could go through a stile on Burton Road, across two
fields by the stream and over the stile into Oxenholme
Road. No supermarket then!
The
field next to the stream flooded wintertime and we loved
to wade in it, six inches deep in our Wellingtons.
Summertimes
were spent mostly outdoors, no television or computers
to gaze at, we played outside till called in for bed!
Greta gardening,
post-war
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The
farmers let us travel on their carts up to the hayfields
which were mostly up Burton Road. The
carts had solid wheels so we nearly got jumped off the
side, we had to hold on tight, a good thing there was
no "health and safety" then!
I
don't ever remember coming to any harm. All the
outdoor activities have influenced my life as I love
gardening and walking but my wish to marry and be a farmer's
wife,
which I made in those early days, never did come to
fruition.
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Greta
Romaine, August 2010
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